Your Guide to Setting Your Goals

What are goals and how do goals help us in life? We have many parts in our life that combine together to give us a whole look. Career, home, religion, hobbies, friends are some such parts of our life.

Imagine a boat on the high seas. The boat is equipped with the latest instruments and gadgets. All the officers and the sailors are fully trained. The fuel tanks are full. The machinery is in order. Everything is fit and fine. Except that the boat has started sailing, but the commander does not know the destination.

Some people live like this boat. They are well educated, and healthy in body. But as they have set no goals for their life, they keep on changing the direction at every opportunity. 

For some of us who are young, career goals take the priority. For some others family goals are equally important. For those who are now retired, friends, hobbies, religion, get the priority. What you need to do is to sit quietly and think and write about your goals. You have to imagine your ideal life, your desires, and what must happen to get that ideal life. 

Once you know your goals in general, you have to prioritize them. What comes first? After the broad goals are set, divide them in small parts of the time frame. This year, I will try_______Or I will change _______I will not give in to ________, but always keep my goal of ______ in my mind.

After diving the goals in small steps, take a weekly summary of everything.

  • What did I achieve this week?
  • Was it satisfactory?
  • Where did I go wrong?
  • What needs correction?
  • What are my goals for the coming week?

This exercise should be repeated every week, every month and every end of the year.

As you find that you are not only setting goals, but also are nearing them, it will give you more inspiration. It will increase your self esteem. It will give you focus and it will give you more determination. Happiness is the result of hard work and achievements. No one who wastes away the time, ever feels happy. Happiness comes after realizing that you completed your work to your own satisfaction.

Set goals to lead a happy life.

Martine Cadet

Martine Cadet, Digital Media strategist, Speaker, Model and Handmade Jewelry Designer.